Uncommon Bonds

Christchurch, New Zealand 

Uncommon Bonds (UB) is a Christchurch, based BDSM group. 

We are a non-profit, pansexual organisation that brings together a lively, creative and fun loving group of people with wide ranging interests in BDSM, fetish and kink.

UB relies on volunteers to help run parties, committees, SIGs and training events.


Second Tuesday of every month!


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Anyone over the age of 18 is Welcome at UB Events.

We hold monthly social get-togethers called munches, these take the form of a meet and greet, where newcomers are welcome to come and learn more. 

We hold regular play parties, which give an opportunity to observe, learn, give expression to your BDSM interests, and explore new areas in a safe, fun environment. 

We also hold regular workshops designed to educate and inform, on a wide variety of topics. New members and new ideas are always welcome. Check the calendar for details of our next munch and come along. Munches are held on the second Tuesday of every month. Contact one of our Greeters, e-mail: ubsteering@gmail.com for more information. 

We also have a number of Special Interest Groups (SIGs) to cater for specific areas of common interest. Check our SIGs pages for more information on the current line up. 

UB promotes safe, sane and consensual BDSM. 

UB cannot be responsible for the actions of individuals in private situations. Claims of years of experience or membership of the UB group is no guarantee of experience or safety. We recommend you take every possible action to ensure your own safety when meeting a potential BDSM partner, including checking references within your local BDSM community. 

Even if you’re not local, the Uncommon Bonds mailing list will keep you in contact with like minded people from in and around Christchurch.

Quick Links

UB Website

We constantly review the UB website by using Google Analytics 

If you notice an error, have new content or are running an event, please send us your update by emailing: ubsteering@gmail.com


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