FetLife is a social networking website that serves people interested in BDSM, fetishism, and kink. On its homepage, FetLife describes itself as "Like Facebook, but run by kinksters like you and me." The "Fet" in the name refers to "fetish".

Uncommon Bonds on FetLife

UB Fetlife Profile:

UB Fetlife Group:

Web Page:

UB made the decision not to have a presence on social media websites, other than FetLife, choosing to control our own content and data on the dedicated UB Website.

SIGS on FetLife

FetLife Profile - Tips

  • Set up a profile and fully fill it in

  • Choose an appropriate profile picture
    - not a dick pic or left blank

  • Think of your safety
    - do not use your real name or show face pics

  • Think of the content and how you wish to be viewed and what you are looking for online

  • Read the FetLife Formatting Guide to help add style

  • Setting up the correct Location (where you are), this will help you find Events in the NEAR YOU tab

  • If you are being harassed by a user
    - use the BLOCK USER function

  • Set up and review your default Privacy Settings