We hold regular monthly munches, as well as a number of play parties and workshops during the year.  We also hold a major play party each year, called Spanks. 

The regular play parties are approximately once a month.  We also hold regular workshops, again around once a month.  Where the parties and workshops happen in the month varies, so it pays to check out when the next one is coming up

Check out entries on the BDSM.GEN.NZ events calendar for a list of our, and other NZ BDSM group, events.

If you are over 18, and a ‘known’ member of the Uncommon Bonds group and have attended a Party Orientation Workshop, or are likewise a known member of one of the other New Zealand BDSM community groups in good standing, you are generally welcome at our play parties.  We do, however, insist on people registering, normally by e-mail to  party@uncommonbonds.org.nz.